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Divorce: Helping Economically Stressed Families
Collaborative Divorce Institute is offering the first-ever training in the Streamlined Protocols for Collaborative Divorce, January 10-12. These new protocols train the team of professionals to directly and efficiently guide, coach and educate the clients. The clients are thoroughly prepared within their team to skillfully communicate with each other and resolve their divorce as they set their sights for a brighter future. Continue reading
Posted in Collaboration, Divorce, Uncategorized
Tagged alternative dispute resolution, anger management, anxiety, children, coach, collaboration, communication, conflict, depression, dispute, divorce, family, family law, health, International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, mediation, mental health, parenting, recession, relationships, resilience, worry
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The Bystander Effect
I believe that the Bystander Effect needs to be considered as seriously as leaving the scene of an accident or leaving the scene of a crime. Continue reading
Posted in Just Stop!, Necessary Conversations, Second-Hand Shock, The Bridge to I Am, Uncategorized
Tagged anger, anger management, anxiety, communication, conflict, depression, family, mediation, mental health, parenting, peace, Post Traumatic Stress, recovery, resilience, victims, violence, worry
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Relationships and Attachment
Some people make attachments with others that go from one extreme to the other: “I don’t want you; please don’t leave me!” They overshoot that midpoint of secure attachment and don’t get much joy or comfort from their connections with others. Continue reading
Posted in Collaboration, Divorce, Necessary Conversations
Tagged anxiety, calm, communication, conflict, divorce, family, health, marriage, mediation, mental health, peace, relationships, worry
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Road to Resilience Can Be Rocky
Attending and graduating from the “School of Hard Knocks” plays a key role in how a person learns to be resilient. Studies show that kids who grew up in adverse living conditions seem to demonstrate a richer depth of resilience in adulthood. Continue reading
Posted in Just Stop!, The Bridge to I Am, Uncategorized
Tagged alternative dispute resolution, anger, anxiety, coach, communication, conflict, death, divorce, family, health, inspiration, mediation, mental health, parenting, recession, recovery, resilience, stress, trauma, work, worry
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Anger is Always About the One Who Feels It
Irresponsible expression of anger robs us of an emotional experience that can passionately drive forward healthy transformation and growth. Continue reading
Posted in Necessary Conversations
Tagged alternative dispute resolution, anger, anger management, anxiety, coach, collaboration, communication, conflict, conflict resolution, dispute, divorce, family, family law, feelings, health, inspiration, International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, mediation, mental health, parenting, peace, stress, victims, work
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Signs of Addiction Can Be Subtle Among Professional Helpers
An interesting article appeared online regarding the more subtle signs of addiction. The author, Ms. Melanie Haiken claims that knowing whether someone you love has a problem with drugs or alcohol is not always as obvious as you might think. … Continue reading
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Tagged addiction, alcoholism, anxiety, baby-boomers, communication, conflict, death, dispute, divorce, family, family law, feelings, health, heroes, International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, law, lawyer, mediation, mental health, peace, Post Traumatic Stress, recovery, sobriety, stress, trauma, victims, work
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Impasse in Conflict Resolution Originates from Within
In my experience, Impasse in any negotiation is an outward expression of an unresolved and unconscious internal impasse or historical conflict that exists within an individual. Continue reading
Does Divorce Qualify as a Traumatic Event?
It appears that because divorce is such a frequent occurrence, many couples are simply opting out of marriage. Are some of these couples avoiding divorce because it is considered to be traumatizing? Can a commonplace occurrence such as divorce even be considered to be traumatic event? Continue reading
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Tagged baby-boomers, coach, collaboration, conflict, dispute, divorce, family, family law, International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, law, lawyer, mediation, mental health, stress, trauma, victims
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